Some of the "toxins" Palmer suggests that have invaded modern childhood include unhealthy diets, a lack of time to freely play - especially outdoors, poor sleep habits, and family dysfunctions, to name a few.
I'm only in the third chapter but am loving this read. In the introduction, Palmer says that there are three main principles children need to learn: focused attention, delayed gratification, and the ability to consider others' needs and interests. I found that interesting because the principles of Babywise address all three of these. From infancy, it teaches how to help the baby learn he or she is part of a family unit and that though he or she is cared for and secure, he is NOT the center. He/she must wait till the proper time to have his/her needs met. And his/her needs are met in a timely, loving way. Also the baby is taught from a young age to learn how to play individually, and how to operate within boundaries. Both of these teach focused attention. Additionally, BW philosophy is built around an understanding of the importance of sleep for children. Good sleep habits breed better behavior, better ability to focus and concentrate, and the ability to control oneself.
The second chapter addresses the lack of free play, especially outdoor play, that children have today. Much of this is because parents are genuinely afraid to let children play unsupervised. It made me remember times when my sister and I could run around and explore in the woods near our house. I know my mom was worried at times, but she somehow managed to provide for us a balance of supervision and freedom. Those times exploring and having adventures outside, using our imaginations, were the highlights of my childhood.
Parenting is such a balance! We have so many more toxins to weed through in our generation. As I seek to weed through them, I hope I can keep the simplicity and joy of childhood that I had in Norah's life.
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| A happy Saturday morning, exploring outside |
